Distance vs Love

it seems dat it's a break-up season these few months...
in less than 3 months for me getting into uni...
i'd been seeing so many couples (includin me myself)
one by one, who turns fr N/A to S/A...
N/A = not available ; S/A = single and available ( UM terms =.= )
and as eu could guess fr my post title...
Distance is the leading reason given...
is really distance a problem in a relationship..?
erm..hmm...
sum say yes..sum say no...
but for me...i would say NO!
distance shouldnt be a problem.... if ur love is stil strong...
it's really undeniable that when eu are in a long-distance relationship...
the couple can no longer see each other as often as they used to...
yup...it's true dat eu wil face times dat he/she couldnt be by ur side in time of need...
gota go shopping alone...
attend fren's bday party w/o ur partner....
and really sumtimes eu wil be questionin urself
" why it seems dat im leading single life more when im actually in a relationship...?"
but then,
why thr's stil lots of couples that can make it thru?
the best example i would gv is yin's parents...
he studied abroad at UK...she was here in m'sia waiting...
in dat 4 yrs time...nv once he came back....
and imagine...it was 20 yrs ago....
the era wif no MSN, no sms, no skype, no 3G, no web cam...
d only affordable way of communication was thru letter...
and it took months to receive...
but then just thru letter...stil they made it thru...
but why we couldnt make it thru when telecommunication are simply accessible?
conversely, there's couple stickin to each othr 24-7....
class togthr...eat togthr...sleep togthr....
do everythg 2gthr....
but end up breakin up too... ?
so i would say...
distance itself wasnt really a problem....
it's all depends on how we look at it...
it's nt all about who waiting for who...
but it's all about we both waiting for each other...
for eu hv time dat nid her by ur side, so do her!
eu hv times dat miss her so badly and wish eu could see her, so do her!
eu hv times dat wish to be hugged so much, so do her!
she/he hv the same fear of lossing eu, nt less than eu!
but it's love+trust+confidence in eu urself+confidence in her/him dat make it thru...
it's the strong feelin dat makes eu wana hold on no matter how hard it would be...
but when eu find urself no longer wana hold on...
it's d time when eu find urself no longer feel for her/him as much as eu used to....
pls dun blame it wholely on distance...
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when love is thr, nthg can be a problem. everythg can be solved..

even it seems thr's no othr way out.stil we would hv the faith dat we can both make it thru 2gthr.

but when love fades, every single lil problem is a big problem tat can nv be solved.

-thx for making me realize such a cruel truth-