Thoughts

hd lunch out wif my gals @ Tony Roma's ytd...
su fern, suiyen, wendy and their bfs..
did alot of catch up wif them...
lots and lots of thgs hd been happening around in just few months time...
looking at my dear frens, looking back at myself...
out of sudden, i realised we all hd really changed alot...
we are not longer the same happy school gals we used to be...
not d change in means of only physical look, but also the inner world of us...
the life afta high school seem to be quite "colourful" in a sense...
but deep down im sure we all seriously miss the old schooling days...
when life was just so simple yet contenting...
when right is right and wrong is wrong - thr's no such thg as "the grey area" for us...
when our "happiness" treshold could be easily achieved -
a smile or a wave from the very special him next bus was enough to make our day...
talking bout the same old joke over and over again yet stil we found it funny...
driving our teachers crazy til get "internal bleed" was one of our common hobbies..
( yea, i was always my teachers' worst nightmare.. XD)
we hv nthg much to wry of dat time...
but now...as we are growing...
more and more responsibilties are piling on our sholders...
more and more important decisions that we have to make...
more and more dilemma that we hd to face...
family, studies, relationships, friends, career and etc etc...
and what i gt to learn fr what i'd been going thru recently is that...
never jugde or critic the others...
thgs might nt be as simple as what we the outsiders see and only if eu were in the same place would be able to understand why would a person do smthg...
everythg happens for a reason and mayb eu would also be doing the same thg when it happens on eu....who noes....
cz we arent perfect...
deep down sumhow human beings are selfish...it's just the matter of degree..
thr's no definitely right or wrong, exspecially in love...
of cz,we should always remind n nt letting ourselves to hurt anyone...
but in case hurt has already made and unaviodable, we shall always try to bring the hurt to the minimum..

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Eeleen said...

Welcome to the real world girl. =]

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